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The loss of a companion animal is something that touches us deeply. For many of us, these animals are not just pets, but part of our family, loyal friends and companions for special moments. If you're going through this right now, know that the pain you feel is completely valid and real. This guide has been lovingly put together to help you face this difficult time and take steps towards emotional care, so that you can heal and, little by little, find solace

1. The Pain of Loss: What You're Feeling is Normal

Losing your pet can be devastating. They have been by your side through good times and bad, offering unconditional love. When they're gone, it's natural to feel a deep pain, an emptiness. Sometimes grief can be misinterpreted, as many people don't understand how much these animals are part of our lives. But the pain you feel is real and important.

You may be feeling it:

• Sad and emptyHe was heartbroken at missing his friend.
• Guilty or sorrywondering if she had done everything she could to take care of him.
• Confused or even angrybecause you don't understand why he's gone or because you can't process everything that's happening.

These feelings are normal and you don't have to face them alone. Allow yourself to feel whatever comes up and, if you feel you need to, try to talk to people who understand what you're going through. Sometimes just getting things off your chest helps a lot.

 

2. What to do immediately after the loss

When our pet leaves, it feels like the world turns upside down. The practicalities, although difficult, can help bring a little peace amidst the emotional turmoil.

Here are some things you can do right after the loss:

• Deciding what to do with your friend's bodyThrough partnerships, Saudade Animal is present in many veterinary clinics, offering cremation services. It can be difficult to make this decision, but it's a step that can bring some comfort, knowing that you're taking care of them until the end.
• Saving special memoriesMaybe a toy, a collar, or even a photo that captures a special moment. Some people even make something symbolic, like a paw print. Anything that will help you remember him fondly.
• Talking to those close to youEven if the pain is difficult to express, talking to friends or family can ease the emotional burden a little. And if you need to, you can seek support from a psychologist or groups specializing in animal bereavement.

 

3. Taking Care of Your Heart: How to Deal with Pain Over Time

The pain of loss doesn't go away immediately. It comes and goes unpredictably. Maybe one day you'll feel a little better, but the next, the longing will come on strong. This is completely natural and part of the grieving process.

Here are a few things that can help you along the way:

• Create a moment of farewellA simple ritual, such as lighting a candle in his memory or writing a farewell letter, can be a loving gesture that brings some relief. This is your way of honoring the special bond you shared.
• Allow yourself to feel the longing: Longing is hard to deal with, but it's also a way of keeping the connection you had with him alive. You can relive good times, remember the things that made you smile alongside him.
• Take care of yourself: Pain can often affect our physical and mental health. Try to remember to take care of yourself - even if it's a small step, like eating well, drinking water or going for a walk. This can be difficult, but it's important for your own well-being.

 

4. Thinking of Opening Your Heart Again: When to Adopt Another Animal

It's possible that, at some point, you'll think about giving an animal another home. But don't feel pressured to do so straight away. Adopting another animal doesn't mean replacing the one you've lost - each being is unique, and the relationship you had with them is irreplaceable.

If you decide to follow this path, here are some things to think about:

• Give yourself the time you need: There's no rush. Grieving time should not be rushed, and adopting another animal should only happen when you feel ready.
• Don't worry about "replacing": Adopting a new friend won't erase the memories of what you experienced with the animal that left. Instead, it will be a new chance to spread love.
• Consider responsible adoptionIf you choose to adopt, remember that there are many animals in shelters waiting for a home. A new friend may be just what you need, but only when you feel ready.

 

5. Gestures of Affection and Remembrance

Here are some small ways to keep your friend's memory alive, with lots of love:

• Write about it: Perhaps it's a diary of memories or a letter. Putting your feelings into words can be a therapeutic way of dealing with pain.
• Create a memory in your garden or at home: Plant a flower or a tree in his honor, or put a photo in a special place. These gestures help to make his presence everlasting in your heart.
• Talk to him in your thoughtsEven after you've left, you can keep talking to your friend. It can be a comfort to imagine that they are still around, looking out for you.

 

Conclusion: Love Never Goes Away

The loss of a pet is difficult, but the love you shared will never fade. The happy memories, the pranks and even the quiet moments together will always be with you. Grief takes time, and each person experiences it in a unique way - so be kind to yourself.

And if you need support, remember that there are groups and professionals who can help make this time a little easier. You are not alone. Give yourself the time and space you need to heal, and always remember that, somewhere, the love you have given and received is never lost.